Christian dating advice for guys
Jenna voiced a common concern among single Christians looking for a lifelong partner: “My spiritual beliefs and values often make dating a very risky pursuit.
I’ve been set up with guys—even ones who know I’m a Christian—who expect me to go along with their lifestyle choices: sex, drugs, excessive drinking, and the rest.
As Brad said, “I’ve heard Christian dating advice that assumes all Christians are exactly the same.
But it’s not as if every believer fits a certain profile.
Spend time with this person and glean all the wisdom you can.
Again, it was Solomon who said, “He who walks with the wise grows wise” (Proverbs ).
The vast majority of Christians I’ve talked to over the years fit this profile (and I’ve talked to thousands). So, if you are really into your faith and that’s all you can talk about, you’re going to have very little luck with most women. If your church is small, consider finding another one.
I went through a period when I was a very judgmental Christian. You can be on fire for God, but don’t use your fire to consume everyone else.
Women aren’t going to think, “wow, he’s vigorously arguing the finer points of theology, I have to date this guy.” If you appear too arrogant and combative, you’ll turn women off.
Fortunately, through, I have some solid Christian dating advice for men.
It’s not a specifically Christian or biblical approach (the Bible didn’t address dating in the modern sense), but here goes.